Presence

A key concept in odalisque training is PRESENCE. The slave is present, here, active, involved in the moment. Whores are not. A whore learns to dissociate. As her client fucks her she is somewhere else - she is not present. Cockslaves are not permitted to do this. They are not permitted to drift off and be vacant, unless this is a desired effect of intoxication. Even then, though, she is not permitted to let her mind wander onto irrelevant and inappropriate things. When a whore is sucking cock she may be thinking about buying a new pair of shoes. When an odalisque is sucking cock then she is thinking about sucking cock. Certainly there is a "zone" she may day-dream her way into but it is not full of trivia.

The main method by which presence is achieved in Code d' Odalisque is erotic mantra or chant. The chant is used to prevent the slave's mind wandering onto and dallying with trivia. Use the chant to prevent the usual flow of nonsense from flowing through the slave's mind.

It is this river of rubbish that flows through the mind that is the actual locus for cock obsession. All of us have this inner river of rubbish. If we stop concentrating for a moment we suddenly have automated thoughts about fragments of pop songs, old conversations, the gas bill, tomorrow's luncheon date, etc. The mind is utterly unruly and when we stop concentrating it is full of junk. Over time it is possible to arrest this river of junk and, at the same time, start replacing items of junk for other things. We can slow the river down and fill it with things we want to be there.

Use erotic chant to achieve this. The chant might be many things: "I love cock" or "I am my Master's cunt" or even just the word "Cock". It doesn't matter. Make the slave practice the habit of chanting a phrase or word. Make her do it until it starts to take hold on her mind. Eventually it will become a habit for her. Eventually whenever she day dreams her mind will be full of the phrase or word instead of the usual junk. When this happens then we may say that the slave is developing appropriately obsessive traits. Obsession. Monomania. We take control of the slave's mental river, slow it down, and turn it to cock obsession. It is this faculty of "river of rubbish" that is part of us all that allows obsession. In an obsessive, this river is full of only one thing. In the rest of us it is full of many things - this keeps us mentally fragmented. Challenge this in the slave. Challenge her to dedicate every thought to cockworship. Fill her mental river with cock. In an impressionable subject, erotic chant can act very deeply.

This is part of "unslutting" a slave. Neither the whore nor the slut are ever really "present" when they fuck. The whore is thinking about the money and the slut is already thinking about moving on. These habits of mind need to be trained out of the slave.

Note well, that in some few cases such psychological exercises can be disturbing to the subject. The mind resists. In that case, stop the practice and come back to it later. Trainers must always err on the side of caution. There can be a good deal of "mindfucking" in training an odalisque. Be warned that playing with the mind can sometimes be a dangerous undertaking. Go slowly. Assess progress along the way.