Distinctions

Sluts, Whores and Slaves

The framework of Code d' Odalisque is based in some simple distinctions between slut, whore and slave. All three can be highly sexed cocklovers, but only the slave is truly devoted to cock. The whore, of course, trades her sex. She expects something in return. The slut is a free agent who gives her sex away but also expects to move on. The slave gives everything, expects no reward and is going nowhere. The distinction between slave and slut might seem unclear because they are both cock-mad. But the slave is dedicated to one man and only enjoys other men as her Master commands. The slut is a free agent. She roams from man to man according to her own whims.

The Slut

The essential characteristic of the slut is that she is a free agent. Her independence is important to her. She loves sex and is highly erotic but her motivations are selfish. She sleeps with a man, then she moves on. Her freedom to move on is crucial to her. She cannot abide by restrictions. She does not want commitment and does not offer it. The slut type needs variety and hates to be tied down into a routine. Unlike the whore, the slut isn't usually bossy - she is independent and self-motivated. She has a rich imagination and needs freedom to explore. She is the most "masculine" of the three types. She is energetic and sexually aggressive. She is a seductress who actively seduces men. At a party you will find her actively flirting with men (often several men).

The Whore

The whore is not really interested in sex. Her motivations are more in what sex can get her. Her game is sexual extortion. She will sleep with a man and do whatever he wants provided it will get her what she wants. She lacks sexual imagination but is nevertheless wily and calculating. She regards sex as a weapon, a means to an end, rather than as a thing in itself. The whore is a manager. She likes managing others and finding ways to get them to do her bidding. Compared to the slut she is lazy. Rather than seduce men she paints herself up and waits until they seduce her. At a party you will find her sitting and displaying herself to men, enticing them to come to her.

The Slave

The slave is neither a free agent like a slut nor an erotic extortionist like a whore. She has a genuine love of sex like the slut but has the whore's lack of imagination. She needs a man to guide her and to direct her explorations. She finds freedom in restriction. The slave loves defined boundaries and routine. She is the most "feminine" of the three types. She will happily commit (and submit) to a man because she calculates that this is the best way to get the sex she needs. She understands the paradox that selflessness is the surest way to achieve deep self satisfaction. At a party you will find her in a quiet corner trying not to be noticed. She would rather be in a quiet one-on-one situation.

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Unslutting is the name given to the process by which an odalisque (cockslave) learns the differences between being a slave and being a whore or a slut. Code d' Odalisque operates by making such distinctions clear. An odalisque is not a whore who expects reward for her service, and she is not a slut who expects to be a free agent. An odalisque is a sexual servant. She needs to learn exactly what this means. The training process that imposes these distinctions is called "unslutting".

Any woman who is strongly sexual is likely to have elements of slave, whore and slut in her psychology. Unslutting attempts to remove or de-prioritize those elements which are typical of whore and slut and thus to make the woman a better slave. She must learn not to expect rewards for her services. And she must learn that her time and her will are not her own. Any characteristics that are whoreish or slutty should be discouraged. For example, attention-seeking is counted as a trait of whores and sluts. Whores especially advertise themselves. It is improper in an odalisque.

"Unslutting" is any training process or activity that helps to refine the slave and that makes her more fully an odalisque. Whores and sluts love sex, love cock, as well. But they are not odalisques. To "unslut" a slave means to teach her these differences.