Beyond the middle-class orgy

The orgy went mainstream some time in the 1990s. Middle class couples had been “swinging” since the Sixties – group sex scenes became common middle-class affairs with the advent of internet porn. Moms and dads were suddenly experimenting with threesomes, same-room-sex, foursomes and moresomes, so that, whereas it had once been a gross taboo only known to bohemian deviants, it is now a not uncommon feature of behind-the-scenes middle class life. Check the on-line forums. “Wanted. Horny married couple seek same for group fun.”

But as anyone who has dabbled in middle-class group sex soon discovers the whole business tends to be tasteless and tacky. It promises to be exciting and adventurous; instead it often amounts to little more than quite mechanical, joyless strutting. Instead of exhilarating, it tends to be banal. Have you ever attended a “gangbang” where the guys all stand around swapping jokes and making crass remarks while they wait their turn? Or an orgy where participants take a “breather” and sit out while texting on their iPhone? Or other group events ruined by idiots, egoists, loud-mouths or men or couples who don’t know the most basic of sexual courtesies? Perhaps you’ve been to a group scene where participants turn up un-washed and reeking of body odor? The whole thing can be quite ugly. No fun.

Code d’ Odalisque includes rules and guidelines for civilized orgia. The default position under the Code is for Slavekeepers to share their cockslaves with other gentlemen and to deploy cockslaves for the purposes of debauched and decadent sexual excess. But the Code also strives for elegance instead of ugliness, beauty instead of banality. The Code includes detailed articles of etiquette and formality designed to maintain certain standards of decorum even during orgiastic events. In this way the Code seeks to rescue the modern orgy from middle-class tackiness. There is a carefully defined code of behavior for guests who are invited to enjoy the delights of an odalisque. These rules grew out of first-hand experience. Men and women today – too often uncultured and uncouth - need such rules. An odalisque – a treasure of flesh – deserves to be protected from common crassness.

This is an important part of the mission of Code d’ Odalisque – creating a platform for the refined enjoyment of multi-player sex. An odalisque is kept for sex. She is to be enjoyed. And, by default, she may be enjoyed by others beyond her Keeper, including by several gentlemen at once. This is especially true of odalisques who choose to specialize in group sex (orgophons). But it is important that players seek to rise above middle-class tackiness and the type of grunge sex that characterizes sex-in-the-suburbs. The rules for orgia under Code d’ Ode have this as their purpose. They are not designed to stifle sexual expression; they are designed to raise it above the ordinary and to bring class, elegance and etiquette to the contemporary orgy. This is a noble cause, and long overdue.