Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Finding odalisques

The old recipe for rabbit stew began with the famous words “First, catch a rabbit…” This is the problem with odalisque slavery, isn’t it? It is an appealing idea but… first find an odalisque. No doubt there are many gentlemen who fancy the idea of owning their own odalisque, but making it a reality is easier said than done. The fact of the matter is that odalisques – women with a genuine aptitude for the odalisque role and lifestyle – are rare. By any calculation, there is a surplus of would-be Slavekeepers and a shortage of willing females. It is highly unlikely that there are idle odalisques living in your neighborhood or catching the same bus as you each morning. Code d’ Odalisque offers an attractive, structured system of consensual sex slave play, but finding a consenting female is the hard part. Indeed, for most gentlemen the prospects seem bleak.

Nevertheless, the task is not impossible, and there are a number of things that can be said as encouragement. Firstly, and most importantly, there is the fact that – rare as they may be – odalisques ARE for real. There ARE women who would enjoy the odalisque life. They are submissive, highly sexed, and would enjoy being kept for erotic service. Such women are not to be found standing on every street corner, but they do exist. If a gentleman is searching for an odalisque, he can at least be heartened to know that he is not hunting a snark. The quest is not hopeless.

In fact, it is encouraging to realize that – rare as they may be – they are, all the same, more common than one might think. Code d’ Odalisque attracts a lot of favorable attention from women. We receive emails on a daily basis from women who are interested in Code d’ Odalisque. The Code itself was first put together in response to requests from women who were looking for non-violent, non-SM sex slave roles. So, there is demand. While there are fewer odalisques in the world than one might like, there are in fact more than one might think. The Code itself states, correctly:

1.15. - Female sexual servants

It is a constant in human social affairs that there is always a class of female who in one way or another have as their vocation the sexual satisfaction of men.


We should all be comforted to know that the world is broad and humanity is diverse. It takes all kinds, as the saying goes. There are women in the world who, by temperament, are suited to the odalisque role. When the quest seems hopeless, one should think of people with highly particularized fetishes. Amazingly, they find willing accomplices. There are men who have equestrian fantasies, for example, and are seeking women who will consent to being ridden and treated as horses. Such men do find willing women. There is – amazingly – a thriving equestrian fantasy sub-culture. Similarly, some men want women who like to be whipped, tortured, beaten and bruised. Amazingly, they find them. Or men with scat fetishes, or other strange, obscure or objectionable desires. The adult scene is full of people who – with patience – find others willing to indulge in their fantasies with them.

But it takes patience. Gentlemen seeking odalisques need to be patient, above all. It can only help if they spend time promoting Code d’ Odalisque and building a community of players. Most likely, odalisque types have never heard the word “odalisque” and don’t know that that is what they are. This is a comment often made by females who contact us. They say “I never realized I was an odalisque. I am into being used sexually and serving sexually without sado-masochism. I didn’t know you call that an ‘odalisque’.”

Such women are then offered Code d’ Odalisque as a complete set of rules to protect, nurture and safeguard them. The Code provides a safe, consensual framework for women. Gentlemen should use Code d’ Ode as an enticement to women who might find the lifestyle attractive. Odalisque slave play is a good deal for the right sort of woman. Assured that there are women with interest and aptitude, gentlemen should then move to offer prospective females a good proposal. A framework of rules for safety, legality and consent, along with a complete set of slave positions and commands, is a drawcard.

In the symbolism of Code d' Ode, an odalisque is considered as rare and as precious as a black pearl. Odalisques are treasured. Like any treasure, it takes time to find it. But once found, it must be protected and kept safe. Code d' Odalisque offers a complete system of odalisque slave play designed to be attractive to interested women. They can rest assured that their slavery will be in a formal, written framework of safety, legality and consent. The Code is a safety net designed to make prospective females more comfortable about submitting to a cockslave's role.

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