Question: I am a Slavekeeper, but I cannot afford to have a slave dependent on me financially full-time. My slave goes out to work two days a week. She also works in my garden. How can I adapt our lifestyle to Code d’ Odalisque?
Answer: Code d’ Ode is very flexible. The written Code seems highly regulated, and it sets out the ideal, but there is plenty of scope for people to adapt it to their needs. Please feel free to take whatever you need from the Code – adapt it to your circumstances.
A feature of Code d’ Ode is the distinction between “occlusion” and “sojourn”. Occlusion is active service. When she is occluded the slave lives as an odalisque, behind closed doors, a sexual captive ready to serve her Master. Ideally, an odalisque spends as much time in occlusion as possible. She is kept for sex.
But in today’s world it is often not possible for a slave to live in occlusion full-time. There are times when she may need to leave the house and go about in the world like a freewoman. For many people, it is a financial necessity that she works, at least part-time. This time is called “sojourn”. A slave who works part-time spends that time on “sojourn”. When her work is done, she returns into the state of “occlusion”. Ideally, she spends as little time as possible on “sojourn” – but the circumstances of modern life may require her to be on sojourn more than is ideal.
Each Master/slave couple need to establish an arrangement that suits their circumstance. Time spent in occlusion and on sojourn can be varied according to needs. The Code is very flexible in this regard. In practice, only a quite wealthy gentleman can afford a slave in full-time occlusion. Also, the fact is that modern women live busy lives. A woman – though she loves being a cockslave to her Master – may have commitments to job, family, friends or study that cannot be entirely avoided. It is best to take a flexible, practical approach and gradually move towards the ideal.
Several points should be observed though:
*Where she needs to work, a slave should only do types of labour that are clean and safe. If she cannot be spared from all work, an odalisque should at least be spared from dirty, heavy, dangerous or demeaning work.
*A Slavekeeper should not exploit financial imperatives to turn his odalisque into a memlook (low slave). And, above all, an odalisque cannot be prostituted. Regardless of financial needs, an odalisque cannot be made to work as a whore.
*The transitions from occlusion to sojourn should be ritualized. A clear distinction should be made between the two states.
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
A Circle of Guests
13.3. - Responsibility of the Keeper over Guests
It is the responsibility of the Keeper to ensure that Guests and any others who enjoy his cockslave respect her limitations, treat her in an appropriate manner and in accordance with the provisions of this Code.
The default position under Code d’ Odalisque is that a Slavekeeper may, if he wishes, share his odalisque with his “Guests”. She serves and obeys him as her Master including by following his commands to pleasure other gentlemen. Some couples prefer a monogamous Master/slave relationship: the norm for an odalisque, however, is that she will serve others (sexually) at her Master’s command.
One reason for this is that most men cannot occupy an odalisque to her full capacity alone. Even the horniest and fittest of men grow weary of constant fucking. This might mean that an odalisque is often left unused. An odalisque is not a work slave. She is spared from toil and kept for sex. Any odalisque could easily fuck three or four times a day and still enjoy a life of leisure. To put an odalisque to proper use a Slavekeeper requires some assistance. He therefore shares his slave with others.
This, of course, is subject to the contractual limitations set by the slave and considerations of consent and sexual health.
The default situation is that the slave is bound to a Slavekeeper – she gives herself to him in sexual service. He uses her, enjoys her, and he shares her with selected friends. He may “loan” her to another man, who is then a Guest Master. Or he may invite others to join him in enjoying her in creative orgia.
The Code sets clear rules about the sharing of slaves. She cannot be prostituted. Her safety must be assured. Her limits must be respected. Guests must be of good character – it is a travesty to share an odalisque with fools, bums and woman-haters.
The best strategy a Slavekeeper can adopt is to cultivate a circle of gentlemen (and perhaps ladies too) who make regular use of his odalisque. The odalisque is at the centre of this circle – the centre of attention. She is treasured. She belongs to the Slavekeeper. She answers to him. But the circle exists to enjoy and appreciate her – a group of people with a common interest, the sexual use of a willing cockslave. In effect, they form a club, with Slavekeeper as President.
Many arrangements are possible. Code d’ Ode is very flexible. The whole purpose of Code d’ Ode is to create an arena for uninhibited odalisque slave play and hedonistic exploration. With a circle of “guests” to draw upon and draw into play a Slavekeeper can be very creative and imaginative in the use of his slave. His first priority, though, must be her welfare. He can – and should – submit his slave to extensive use and creative sex play, but his first priority is always her safety and health. The same must also be true of his Guests. They share a duty of care.
The circle that forms around an odalisque must regard her as a beautiful, precious, rare pearl, and cherish her accordingly. The use of an odalisque, by her Master, by Guest Masters, or by groups (threesomes, orgies) is always underpinned by a deep regard for her and for the institution of odalisque. An odalisque is not an orgy slut, not a common tramp. She is regarded as a beautiful treasure. Owning an odalisque is a privilege few men can enjoy. This is another reason why a Keeper shares his slave. He is blessed to possess a cockslave. He has a moral duty to share his good fortune with others less sexually fortunate than he. Generosity is the default position in Code d’ Odalisque. Generosity is a virtue in a Slavekeeper. He is generous with his slave.
It is the responsibility of the Keeper to ensure that Guests and any others who enjoy his cockslave respect her limitations, treat her in an appropriate manner and in accordance with the provisions of this Code.
The default position under Code d’ Odalisque is that a Slavekeeper may, if he wishes, share his odalisque with his “Guests”. She serves and obeys him as her Master including by following his commands to pleasure other gentlemen. Some couples prefer a monogamous Master/slave relationship: the norm for an odalisque, however, is that she will serve others (sexually) at her Master’s command.
One reason for this is that most men cannot occupy an odalisque to her full capacity alone. Even the horniest and fittest of men grow weary of constant fucking. This might mean that an odalisque is often left unused. An odalisque is not a work slave. She is spared from toil and kept for sex. Any odalisque could easily fuck three or four times a day and still enjoy a life of leisure. To put an odalisque to proper use a Slavekeeper requires some assistance. He therefore shares his slave with others.
This, of course, is subject to the contractual limitations set by the slave and considerations of consent and sexual health.
The default situation is that the slave is bound to a Slavekeeper – she gives herself to him in sexual service. He uses her, enjoys her, and he shares her with selected friends. He may “loan” her to another man, who is then a Guest Master. Or he may invite others to join him in enjoying her in creative orgia.
The Code sets clear rules about the sharing of slaves. She cannot be prostituted. Her safety must be assured. Her limits must be respected. Guests must be of good character – it is a travesty to share an odalisque with fools, bums and woman-haters.
The best strategy a Slavekeeper can adopt is to cultivate a circle of gentlemen (and perhaps ladies too) who make regular use of his odalisque. The odalisque is at the centre of this circle – the centre of attention. She is treasured. She belongs to the Slavekeeper. She answers to him. But the circle exists to enjoy and appreciate her – a group of people with a common interest, the sexual use of a willing cockslave. In effect, they form a club, with Slavekeeper as President.
Many arrangements are possible. Code d’ Ode is very flexible. The whole purpose of Code d’ Ode is to create an arena for uninhibited odalisque slave play and hedonistic exploration. With a circle of “guests” to draw upon and draw into play a Slavekeeper can be very creative and imaginative in the use of his slave. His first priority, though, must be her welfare. He can – and should – submit his slave to extensive use and creative sex play, but his first priority is always her safety and health. The same must also be true of his Guests. They share a duty of care.
The circle that forms around an odalisque must regard her as a beautiful, precious, rare pearl, and cherish her accordingly. The use of an odalisque, by her Master, by Guest Masters, or by groups (threesomes, orgies) is always underpinned by a deep regard for her and for the institution of odalisque. An odalisque is not an orgy slut, not a common tramp. She is regarded as a beautiful treasure. Owning an odalisque is a privilege few men can enjoy. This is another reason why a Keeper shares his slave. He is blessed to possess a cockslave. He has a moral duty to share his good fortune with others less sexually fortunate than he. Generosity is the default position in Code d’ Odalisque. Generosity is a virtue in a Slavekeeper. He is generous with his slave.
Saturday, September 3, 2011
A program of delights
It is usually better if the use of an odalisque is not haphazard. It is better if the Slavekeeper has a clear idea of what he wants her for and what he wants to do with her.
In some cases, men have very definite sexual preoccupations, very definite fetishes. They acquire a cockslave in order to explore those fetishes.
In other cases, a man’s sexual interests are wide open – they are up for wide-ranging exploration.
In either case, it is best if a Slavekeeper has some plan of action.
OK. You are now the proud owner of a beautiful, willing cockslave. What do you intend to do with her?
This is a question every prospective Slavekeeper should be asked and should ask of themselves. What – exactly – do I intend to do with a compliant cockslave?
It is a good question, and never as easy to answer as it might seem. If a lovely, sexual woman confessed to being your slave and would willingly do whatever you ask of her, what would you use her for?
At this point many men can only offer: “Well, I’d fuck her.”
Yes, but how? When? Where? In what ways?
The craft of Slavekeeping needs to be much more creative than that. Odalisque slavery is about creative hedonism. Creativity is the job of the Slavekeeper. The slave is compliant, willing, but it is not her job to come up with creative sex play. That is the job of the Slavekeeper.
It is often useful for a Slavekeeper to compile a ‘Program of Delights’ – a concise program of the sexual activities in which he would like to indulge with the assistance of his slave. Of course, play will always follow its own path, and it is hard to say where certain interests might lead. It is experimental. Suck it and see. But the Keeper should at least have a list of his fantasies, things he wants to do and wants his slave to do. Odalisque slavery is exclusively sexual. Sex is what an odalisque does. A good Slavekeeper has a rich and diverse program of acts and scenes planned for his odalisque.
To compile such a program requires a certain amount of introspection. A man needs to look into his own desires. He needs to understand his own weaknesses, his own frailties and fantasies. The things that float his boat. He can then set out a framework for his explorations. In this he needs to be honest about his own depravity. Owning a cockslave may be his one chance in life to explore beyond the usual boundaries. How far will he go? What lusts lurk in the dark corners of his heart?
There is no need for the slave to see such a Program of Delights. Its purpose is to bring clarity and consistency to the Slavekeeper in his role. But it should be consistent with any specialization the slave may have nominated. Ordeals - as defined and set out in Code d' Odalisque - should be included in advance planning of orgia.
In some cases, men have very definite sexual preoccupations, very definite fetishes. They acquire a cockslave in order to explore those fetishes.
In other cases, a man’s sexual interests are wide open – they are up for wide-ranging exploration.
In either case, it is best if a Slavekeeper has some plan of action.
OK. You are now the proud owner of a beautiful, willing cockslave. What do you intend to do with her?
This is a question every prospective Slavekeeper should be asked and should ask of themselves. What – exactly – do I intend to do with a compliant cockslave?
It is a good question, and never as easy to answer as it might seem. If a lovely, sexual woman confessed to being your slave and would willingly do whatever you ask of her, what would you use her for?
At this point many men can only offer: “Well, I’d fuck her.”
Yes, but how? When? Where? In what ways?
The craft of Slavekeeping needs to be much more creative than that. Odalisque slavery is about creative hedonism. Creativity is the job of the Slavekeeper. The slave is compliant, willing, but it is not her job to come up with creative sex play. That is the job of the Slavekeeper.
It is often useful for a Slavekeeper to compile a ‘Program of Delights’ – a concise program of the sexual activities in which he would like to indulge with the assistance of his slave. Of course, play will always follow its own path, and it is hard to say where certain interests might lead. It is experimental. Suck it and see. But the Keeper should at least have a list of his fantasies, things he wants to do and wants his slave to do. Odalisque slavery is exclusively sexual. Sex is what an odalisque does. A good Slavekeeper has a rich and diverse program of acts and scenes planned for his odalisque.
To compile such a program requires a certain amount of introspection. A man needs to look into his own desires. He needs to understand his own weaknesses, his own frailties and fantasies. The things that float his boat. He can then set out a framework for his explorations. In this he needs to be honest about his own depravity. Owning a cockslave may be his one chance in life to explore beyond the usual boundaries. How far will he go? What lusts lurk in the dark corners of his heart?
There is no need for the slave to see such a Program of Delights. Its purpose is to bring clarity and consistency to the Slavekeeper in his role. But it should be consistent with any specialization the slave may have nominated. Ordeals - as defined and set out in Code d' Odalisque - should be included in advance planning of orgia.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Keeping a cockslave
Keeping a cockslave: some basic preparatory points. These are some basic things to note if you are at the beginning of owning a cockslave.
*You are Slavekeeper. Your odalisque is slave. Owning a slave is a responsibility and a privilege. A Keeper must keep his slave. You must feed, accommodate and look after your slave.
*Your odalisque is a captive sex slave. You keep her as a captive. You do so in order to use her for your sexual enjoyment.
*She cannot be used as a work slave. Her only task is sex. She does not cook or clean. As Keeper, you will need to organize cooking and cleaning both for yourself and for her.
*Your slave is a secret captive. She is hidden from the world. She is kept in “occlusion”. Treat your slave as a secret. Keep your slave lifestyle a secret.
*The slave is forbidden to leave the house without express permission. The Keeper should establish rules about this and about her behavior outside the house (sojourn). The less time the slave spends in sojourn the better. The more time she spends in occlusion the better.
*You control your slave’s clothing. Her natural state is completely naked. She should be allowed appropriate garments but kept “essentially naked.”
*Because your slave is kept naked or semi-naked you need to provide appropriate heating.
*Your slave must have access to bath and shower (and spa, where possible). An odalisque should spend a lot of her time washing, relaxing, preening, preparing herself for the use of her Master.
*Instruct your slave in your preferences regarding her presentation to you. Tell her how you want her to present herself. With her hair up or down? Her pubic hair trimmed or shaven? Etc.
*The slave should wear an “attar” – that is, a distinctive perfume. Make sure she wears this perfume whenever she is in active service as odalisque.
*Encourage a “service ethic” in the slave. She should be eager to serve and proud to do her job well.
*Establish a routine for the slave. Her life should be restrictive and structured. She is a captive, not a freewoman.
*The slave should be nurtured – this requires that she goes on sojourn for some things. Allow her to go for walks, or swimming, or to piano lessons, or yoga classes, or French lessons, or other activities outside the house, as arranged. The Slavekeeper must pay for these activities.
*Your odalisque has her own room – her odella. It should be comfortable, heated, private. She spends most of her time as captive in her odella.
*Adjust your slave’s sleeping so that she lives mostly at night. An odalisque is a creature of the night. Let her sleep until mid to late afternoon.
*Ensure that all contracts and guidelines are in order before any play begins. Give proper attention to matters of consent, safety and legality.
*Discuss contraception with your slave from the very beginning. There is a heavy responsibility upon a Slavekeeper to not let his odalisque fall pregnant.
*Discuss the question of guests with your slave from the very beginning. The default position is that a Keeper may share his slave with other gentlemen. Does the slave agree with this? If so, under what conditions?
*Teach the slave the basic slave positions. Construct slave play around the slave postures and commands. Let it be formal but not military-style.
*A Slavekeeper should acquire a suitable sword as emblem of his authority over his slave. An odalisque lives “under the sword”. Where there is no sword a cane can be substituted as a makeshift sword.
*Require the slave to say certain things in French. Start with using “oui” instead of “yes”. Control her speech. Set rules.
*Use bondage and confinement (cages etc.) to instill a captive mentality into the slave.
*Be clear in your own mind about how you want to use your slave. What do you want her to do sexually? How do you want to use her? Be creative.
*You are Slavekeeper. Your odalisque is slave. Owning a slave is a responsibility and a privilege. A Keeper must keep his slave. You must feed, accommodate and look after your slave.
*Your odalisque is a captive sex slave. You keep her as a captive. You do so in order to use her for your sexual enjoyment.
*She cannot be used as a work slave. Her only task is sex. She does not cook or clean. As Keeper, you will need to organize cooking and cleaning both for yourself and for her.
*Your slave is a secret captive. She is hidden from the world. She is kept in “occlusion”. Treat your slave as a secret. Keep your slave lifestyle a secret.
*The slave is forbidden to leave the house without express permission. The Keeper should establish rules about this and about her behavior outside the house (sojourn). The less time the slave spends in sojourn the better. The more time she spends in occlusion the better.
*You control your slave’s clothing. Her natural state is completely naked. She should be allowed appropriate garments but kept “essentially naked.”
*Because your slave is kept naked or semi-naked you need to provide appropriate heating.
*Your slave must have access to bath and shower (and spa, where possible). An odalisque should spend a lot of her time washing, relaxing, preening, preparing herself for the use of her Master.
*Instruct your slave in your preferences regarding her presentation to you. Tell her how you want her to present herself. With her hair up or down? Her pubic hair trimmed or shaven? Etc.
*The slave should wear an “attar” – that is, a distinctive perfume. Make sure she wears this perfume whenever she is in active service as odalisque.
*Encourage a “service ethic” in the slave. She should be eager to serve and proud to do her job well.
*Establish a routine for the slave. Her life should be restrictive and structured. She is a captive, not a freewoman.
*The slave should be nurtured – this requires that she goes on sojourn for some things. Allow her to go for walks, or swimming, or to piano lessons, or yoga classes, or French lessons, or other activities outside the house, as arranged. The Slavekeeper must pay for these activities.
*Your odalisque has her own room – her odella. It should be comfortable, heated, private. She spends most of her time as captive in her odella.
*Adjust your slave’s sleeping so that she lives mostly at night. An odalisque is a creature of the night. Let her sleep until mid to late afternoon.
*Ensure that all contracts and guidelines are in order before any play begins. Give proper attention to matters of consent, safety and legality.
*Discuss contraception with your slave from the very beginning. There is a heavy responsibility upon a Slavekeeper to not let his odalisque fall pregnant.
*Discuss the question of guests with your slave from the very beginning. The default position is that a Keeper may share his slave with other gentlemen. Does the slave agree with this? If so, under what conditions?
*Teach the slave the basic slave positions. Construct slave play around the slave postures and commands. Let it be formal but not military-style.
*A Slavekeeper should acquire a suitable sword as emblem of his authority over his slave. An odalisque lives “under the sword”. Where there is no sword a cane can be substituted as a makeshift sword.
*Require the slave to say certain things in French. Start with using “oui” instead of “yes”. Control her speech. Set rules.
*Use bondage and confinement (cages etc.) to instill a captive mentality into the slave.
*Be clear in your own mind about how you want to use your slave. What do you want her to do sexually? How do you want to use her? Be creative.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
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