Diverse needs

A man needs more than sex. He needs companionship, friendship, intellectual stimulation, amongst other things. It is always a mistake in life, however, to suppose that all of these needs can be met by one person. This is a very common strain upon marriages. People try to get all of their needs from their partner. Too often, the partner fails to live up to this unreasonable expectation and relationships end in disappointment. Very often, over time, a man will hone back his expectations and, with resignation, realize that a wife cannot be all things. This is the point at which a man starts to see his wife as only a business partner (with whom he shares his property and debts) and starts looking elsewhere for those things he cannot find at home. Usually this means that he spends more time with his male friends and, very often, looks elsewhere for sexual fulfillment too. It is a hard lesson of life: you can’t get everything from one person.

This is even more true of an odalisque. It is a one dimensional relationship. The purpose of an odalisque is to provide a man with sexual adventure. Only a man who has strong sexual needs is in need of an odalisque (cockslave). She acts as a compliant and willing sexual toy, an agreeable partner in his sexual fantasies. But that is all she is and it is unreasonable for a Slavekeeper to expect anything more from her. She is not a wife. She is not a companion. She is not a mate or a buddy. She doesn’t sit with him watching the football while having a few beers. She is an answer to one problem only: his sexual desires. His other needs have to be met through other relationships with other people.

These are important considerations for any man who is thinking of purchasing an odalisque. He must appreciate the limitations of such a relationship. If his problem is loneliness, then it is a girlfriend he needs, not an odalisque. If he needs someone to talk to, he needs friends, not a sex slave. If he needs love, he needs a lover. An odalisque – even less than a wife – cannot be an all-purpose companion. This involves mature judgments. A man must ask himself serious questions about his needs and how he intends to fulfill those needs. The best strategy is always to seek a range of solutions through diverse relationships. The Master/slave relationship is just one such relationship. A man needs other relationships for other purposes. His odalisque brings him beauty and pleasure – but it is not her job to keep him company on fishing trips. A rich life requires many relationships and associations in order to meet a man’s diverse needs.

It is also true, of course, that different men have different needs. Not every man needs a cockslave. There are some men, however, who are shaped and consumed by their sexual drives. There are men who need sex every day. There are men who need sex several times a day. There are men who spend their lives in brothels. Their sexuality will not be denied. They are driven by phallic obsessions. For such men sexual fulfillment is a first priority in life. They have a deep urge to go into and explore their sexuality, to embrace excess, to pursue ecstasy. It is not so for all men – only for some. These are the men who might reasonably make good use of a personal cockslave. They should realize, though, that a cockslave has a very specific role. His other needs – intellectual, emotional, social – he will necessarily have to meet through other relationships with other people. It is important not to burden an odalisque with tasks outside of her proper role. It is important that a man makes a realistic estimation of all his needs and meets those diverse needs through a diverse range of relationships. Let it be clear - an odalisque is only a solution to one problem: sex. For other needs a man must look elsewhere.